You like to have fun. You like to get out and about and you love to mix with other people. This makes you a very outgoing and sociable person. Now you might have noticed that your Cancer partner is rarely in the mood to party. He or she will prefer to do something 'quiet' as a twosome and there seems to be an allergy for crowded places. This will eventually frustrate you. When you want to go out - which is most of the time, Cancer will want to stay in - and this too, is most of the time. Unless you're happy to follow your individual interests, this could cause a lot of problems.
Gemini Cancer Compatibility Astrology
For it's unlikely that your Cancerian partner will smile and tell you to "enjoy yourself" as you get ready for an evening out partying while he or she has decided to spend the night in alone, watching t.v. Cancer may look as if he or she doesn't care but deep down they resent your going out without them. And you will eventually suffer for it. Cancer can be very possessive. He or she has a wild imagination. And you might wonder whether there is any trust in this relationship.
The basic problem is that Cancerians are home-loving creatures. But 'home' for you is 'wherever you lay your hat'. This could cause it's problems for you can't understand why your partner puts so much emphasis on a secure home life and your partner can't understand why you need to be so restless.
But to curb your restlessness will be like cutting off an essential part of your nature. And you can understand that not to provide your Cancerian partner with the security they are looking for will again be expecting them to sacrifice a vital part of their nature. Unless a compromise is reached, this relationship probably won't be a lasting one.
Gemini with Cancer Compatibility as Friends and Lovers
And so, Cancer will provide a good home for you, if that's what you so desire. But I think that your love of variety will conflict with your partner's need for security. You like to live for the moment but Cancer will find this kind of spontaneity unnerving. Whereas your idea of 'pillow talk' will make your modest Cancerian lover, cringe!
Cancer is loving, deeply emotional and quite complicated in nature. Certainly you will find it difficult to understand his or her constantly changing moods, no matter how hard you try to analyse why they might act certain ways. But it's just that you aren't always on the same wavelength, so how can you meet each other on a mental, spiritual or even emotional level?
You are an intelligent person but your Cancerian partner relies more on emotions than head. They're lovey-dovey, sentimental and quite passionate too and you just don't feel as if you can fulfil their romantic ideals. Of course you can understand why they are attracted to you, but deep down you probably know that this one is not your ideal mate.
